How to handle women with a high s*x drive
Having a high sex drive is very common for women which often leads to frustration especially if their partner is the opposite.
Men feel stressed out, dejected with a smashed ego when they feel that they are not able to satisfy their partner.
Worry not, we spoke to a few women and gathered their opinion on how men can satisfy their female partners with a high sex drive.
Scroll down to see what you can do.
1. Do not take it personally
It is very rare that the couple has their sexual libido in sync because in most cases women have a higher drive. But the key here is not to take it personally and feel rejected. Instead, take it in your stride and do what you think may work best for her. Do not underestimate yourself.
Sometimes, lethargy and being unfit contributes to sad sex lives. If your partner has a higher sex drive then you can try working out and strengthening your core and the muscles so that you do not get tired so soon. It is not a guaranteed solution, but it does help and it makes you fit too so it is a win-win situation.
3. Brainstorm ideas
If your partner has a high sex drive then brainstorm idea with her to see how can she too feel that satisfaction. She may even be happy masturbating without you. If she is good with using a sex toy and doing it on her own sometimes, there is satisfation and you too do not feel that burden or stress. If you want to be involved, join her!
Many couples even with high sex drives, take lesser time to climax when there is body contact like massages. Here by massages, we mean Nuru massage where you rub each other with your body instead of hands using oil.
Some couples who do not have set rules and have different boundaries when it comes to sexual pleasure, involve a third and fourth person. Threesomes and foursomes are not unique or unknown to us Indians in case you said “hawww”. As long as there is a clear understanding, you both can discuss the involvement of someone and see whether this option is on the table or not. Do remember that trust is very important here.
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